
Michael Bell
April 27, 1949 - March 31, 2004
Teacher, advocate, coach,
curmudgeon, musician, singer, mentor, advisor, dad, husband,
grandpa: Michael Bell was many things to
many people. But
when he died suddenly on March 31st I and many others at Fremont
High School lost a great friend.
What I enjoyed most about
him was the way he talked. He loved
words and when he spoke, the words he used could enlighten and influence, mock
and amuse. He took delight in playing devil’s advocate. He had a way of addressing students and
adults alike formally and respectfully with his “sir” and “ma'am”, “mister” or
“miss”. It's
hard to think that extension 8078 will no longer be answered with "This is
Michael Bell."
Michael Bell looked
intimidating. He was big and with that beard he looked kind of mean. Yet anyone who spent any time with him knew
that not only was he approachable, he was someone who listened whenever and
wherever one needed to talk. He was
honest and realistic with his advice, even if it wasn’t
what one wanted to hear. Michael
mentored some of the new teachers and had a way of getting his “newbees” to want to reach to the highest standards. He wasn’t lavish in
his praise and when (and if) it came you knew you had earned it.
We all know that he was not
sugary. When you would see him you wouldn't know
whether to expect some mockery or not --"Are you going to wear that?"
he once asked me before parent- teacher conferences. He hated interruptions in
his class. If you came to his door while
he was teaching, you'd better cringe because he would shout, "what?!!" Sometimes
I would come visit just to hear it. He had a wicked and irreverent sense of humor
that never failed to entertain.
Aside from teaching and
promoting Michigan State University, Michael’s most important role at Fremont
High School was that of being the world’s greatest packer fan. He was school spirit personified - - if you doubt that
you never saw him in the neon pink volleyball shirt. He believed in the students here and showed
it in the way he participated in spirit week and supported the student
activities, clubs and sports. He stood
for students becoming the best they could be: in the classroom, competition,
stage, field or community. It didn’t matter about ability or disability: he respected
every individual and did his best to make a difference in their lives.
When someone dies, people
will say “so and so wouldn’t want us to be sad”. But I think Mr. Bell
would like to see us crying. He would be
gratified to know he mattered to so many people. However, he would tell us to get over
it. I know he wants us to carry on his
belief that high school is the time to grow and use the gifts we have. Then on
graduation day this year and every year he can be
there with us as the graduates file past and we’ll hear him say “well done.”
Teresa Caliguri
April 2004